Create your profile
Create a free profile with the basic information needed for searching, responding, and controlling who may contact you. A profile is required before you can post or respond to another member.
How PostedLove Works
Simple by design.
Personal by choice.
PostedLove brings back the simplicity of traditional personal advertisements while providing the search, privacy and communication tools expected from a modern website.
Create a profile, write in your own words, browse Personal Introductions or Join Me invitations, and decide for yourself who you want to contact.
PostedLove does not use a compatibility score to decide who is right for you. The search helps you find relevant posts. The decision stays yours.
If you do not choose a chronological sort, matching active Introductions are shown in a fair shuffled order. You can also choose Newest first or Oldest first.
Write your Personal Introduction
Tell people, in your own words, who you are, how you live, what matters to you, and who you hope to meet.
- Serious relationship
- Nothing serious
- I don't know yet
- A new friendship
No public profile photo is required.
Browse and search
Search Personal Introductions by age, country, language, relationship goal, lifestyle, and other preferences.
PostedLove helps you narrow the search, but it does not decide who is right for you.
Join Me
Use Join Me
Join Me is a separate optional post for members who already have an outing or activity planned and would like someone to come along.
You may have one active Join Me post in addition to your Personal Introduction.
Join Me
Create a Join Me invitation
A Join Me post can include:
- Activity or event
- City and venue
- Date and time
- Male, female, or either company
- Optional age preference
- Ticket arrangements
- Costs
- How you will be dressed
- Event dress code
- Languages
- Allowed response countries
- Optional event/activity image
A public profile photo is still not required.
Respond privately
If a Personal Introduction or Join Me post interests you, send a private response after creating a PostedLove profile.
First response
Written message + up to 5 private photos.
Responses stay clearly separated
Responses are separated into Personal Introductions and Join Me so you can immediately see why someone contacted you.
Every response keeps its original source attached, including the relevant Join Me event where applicable.
Continue the conversation
When the owner of the post replies, the response automatically moves from Responses to Conversations.
Conversations remain separated between Personal Introductions and Join Me.
Private messages
Attach up to 5 photos to each message.
Keep your posts current
Personal Introduction
Visible for 30 days. Edit, pause, renew, or reactivate it from your account.
Join Me
A date-specific post automatically stops appearing publicly when the event begins. A future post may be edited or paused.
Join Me
Tickets and costs
Explain whether a ticket must be bought in advance, purchased at the entrance, is already arranged, or whether an extra ticket is available.
Cost rule
Each person is responsible for their own costs unless both
people clearly agree otherwise.
Stay in control
You decide:
- Which countries may respond to your Personal Introduction.
- Which countries may respond to your Join Me post.
- What information you share.
- Who you communicate with.
- Whether you share private photos.
- Whether you choose to meet someone.
Safety
Meet safely
When meeting someone through Join Me or a Personal Introduction, use the safety guidance on PostedLove.
- Meet in a public place.
- Tell someone you trust where you are going.
- Keep control of your own transport.
- Keep control of your belongings.
- Do not leave your drink unattended.
Ready when you are
Start with words, not a swipe.
Create your profile, write your Personal Introduction, or browse Join Me invitations when you want company for something already planned.